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Question:

With who I want to get closer?

General Meanings:

In General the kissing is presented as the action of tenderness, sign of love and affection. Those who have dreams about kisses usually are longing for sensitivity and closeness. There are different explanations of the kiss, depending on the circumstances of it:

Kissing a certain person
The dream in which you kiss a particular person shows your relationships and feelings to that person. Sometimes when we longing for some person or feel deeply and emotionally attached to him we dream of kissing that person. The dream could also show the sexual affection towards the person you’ve kissed

Kissing the hands
Since the ancient times the hands were the symbol of the tool which helps to provide the food and take care of those you love. Not only in dreams, but in reality also the kissing of the hands show the respect for the person that the hands been kissed you have. Sometimes the other people kiss your hands which shows the appreciation they have to you. Consider who was kissing your hands and you will be able to thank that person in reality.

Others kissing
To witness other people kissing shows the longing for love the dreamer suffers. Such dream is quite depressing, because of the inability to be the one that is kissed. Consider of what is missing in your life, try to fill that gap not necessarily with love, but with something you really like to do.

Kissing old people
To kiss people that are old in reality shows the respect, however in dreams it has a negative meaning. According to the explanation of such dream it shows the disappointments the dreamer will suffer. There is a possibility of the loss for those you’ve known for a long time, because when the dreamer kiss the old people it shows the farewell with something that no longer will exist. Do not worry, as sometimes the end of something is the beginning of something new, maybe even better.

Psychological Meanings:

On the psychological level the kiss is the part of communication with other people. For example in France it is very common to kiss people who are not necessary your lovers, but friends too. The kiss that is used on your partner and friends are completely different.
The kiss on the lips usually shows the affection to that particular person you’ve been kissing.Very often the kiss is interpreted as the part of spiritual communication. The agreement that was made can also be secured with a kiss.
The kiss that was made with the tongue is more related to sexual needs and desires. These kind of dreams shows the erotic aspects of your personality. The tongue-kiss or French kiss is usually the part of the beginning of sexual intercourse, when the partners start by kissing each other, then kissing and in the end of it making love. Alternatively, the dream in which the dreamer was tongue kissing the other one may indicate his desire to reach out the ideas or the attention of that certain person. Sometimes in reality we feel like we’re not listened or understood properly, therefore by kissing the other one we feel the attention and the connection we were aiming for.
Consider, what is missing in your life. Maybe you are looking for romance or just simply longing to share your life with somebody else.

Spiritual Meanings:

On the spiritual level the kiss is the symbol of love, friendship, relationship, duality, tenderness and respect. The kiss also have the religious meaning depending on the religion, which usually symbolizes spiritual blessing.

Traditional Meanings:

European (Judeo-Christian)

• Falseness if kissed without permission – to dream that you were kissed by someone, but without asking for it, shows the untrue and false friends you have;
• Decadence if had prohibited kiss – if the dreamer kissed someone or been kissed by someone that is forbidden to kiss, then such dream signifies inappropriate actions you will do or denotes to personal downfall;
• Respect if received the kiss – to dream that you received the kiss by someone and it felt pleasurable, shows the devotion and respect that person has to you;
• Respect if kissing the hand – if someone kissed your hand or you kissed someone;s hand, such dream shows admiration and respects towards the person whose hand been kissed;
• Humiliation if kissing the foot – if you kissed someone’s foot or somebody kissed yours, such dream refers to indignity towards the one that was kissing the foot;
• Friendship if kissing the cheek – the kiss on the cheek symbolizes the honest relationships between those who were having a kiss;
• Jealousy if kiss friend’s boyfriend/girlfriend – the dream of kissing someone that does not belong to you, but is in relationship to another person and is forbidden to kiss, shows the longing for love or envy towards relationships between other people;
• Memories if kissing your ex boyfriend/girlfriend – in the dream which you were kissing your ex girlfriend or boyfriend shows the memories you are having. Those memories could be either good, either bad ones, depending on your past relationships. The dream suggest you to look into your past and learn from it, instead of receiving negative aspects of it;
• Respect if kissed the friend – to dream of kissing the friend, denotes to adoration and love you have towards that particular person you were kissing in your dream. The dream could also show your hidden romantic feelings to this friend;
• Acceptance of suppressed aspects of your personality if kissed the stranger – such dream denotes to the final realization of who you are. Consider, that if you were kissed by the stranger, then such dream shows the new aspects in your personality you found you have;
• The desire to be the best if kissing the popular person/celebrity – if you were kissing the person that is known by mostly people and he/she is actor, singer, comedian or any other celebrity, then it means that you are willing to be successful in your life. You’ve got the drive to go forward in life and take as much as it possible out of it;
• Danger if kissing in the dark – the dream in which you were kissing someone in the darkness, suggest to be careful, because the dangerous situations will be lurking for you;
• Sadness if others are kissing – to see other people kissing brings the longing and sadness in your life. The dream shows you’re in depressed mood while looking at other being happy;
• Longing for tenderness if kiss the mother – the kiss that was received or given by the mother, shows the tenderness you are missing;
• Joy if kissing brother or sister – in the dream in which you kiss your relatives such as brothers or sisters, shows happiness in your life;
• Fear of losing the respect if boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife kissing the other person – the dream in which your partner kiss another person, shows your fear or losing that person or the respect he/ she has for you;
• Disappointments if kiss the old person – to dream that you were kissing the old person or received the kiss from him, shows the frustration you will suffer. Alternatively, the dream might show the respect towards the old person;
• Happiness if kissing the face – the dream in which the whole face was kissed, brings happiness in all aspects of your life;
• Melancholy if do not like the kiss – to dream that you do not want to kiss the person you love, shows the anger towards that person or sadness you are suffering;
• Many descendants if kissing the dead person – the dream in which you’ve kissed the person that is already dead, denotes to children you might have;
• Evil if kissing the married person – if you kissed someone that is married, then such dream shows the negativity and badness that lies in you. Make sure you get rid of the negative aspects that you have in your personality;
• Happy marriage if kissing the bride – to dream that you’ve kissed the bride, symbolizes your own happy marriage no matter if you are already married or will be in the future;
• Humiliation if kiss the ground/earth – the dream in which you kissed the ground suggest you to look after by whom you are surrounded by, because there is a possibility you will get humiliated by those people;
• Piety if kissing the cross – to dream that you were kissing the cross, shows your devotion and love towards God. You are the person who believes that goodness brings the happiness in life;
• Happiness in family life if kissing the children – to dream that you were kissing kids, shows the happy and joyful family life;
• Unhappiness if young woman kiss the forehead of her lover – the person that has been kissed by the young women on his forehead is unhappy with this woman. There is no passion between these two.

Hindu (Hinduism)

• Falseness if kissing your own hands – to dream that you were kissing the hands of your own, shows the untrue friends you are surrounded by;
• Surveillance if kissing the neck – to kiss the neck in the dream, shows the care you have to somebody or receiving it out from someone;
• Love if kissing someone passionately – if you’ve kissed someone with love and passion, then such dream shows that you have very strong feelings to that certain person. Maybe you feel irresistible desire to make love to that person or simply love him deeply;
• Great perspectives if kissing someone’s hands – to dream that you were kissing the hands of someone, means the opportunities you will have, which will bring great profits;
• Goodness if kissing the dead person you know – to dream of kissing the person that is dead and you know him as the one who already passed away, symbolizes the good you will receive from this person’s soul;
• Humiliation if kiss the ground/earth – the dream in which you kissed the ground suggest you to look after by whom you are surrounded by, because there is a possibility you will get humiliated by those people;
• Piety if kissing the cross – to dream that you were kissing the cross, shows your devotion and love towards God. You are the person who believes that goodness brings the happiness in life;
• Happiness in family life if kissing the children – to dream that you were kissing kids, shows the happy and joyful family life;
• Will celebrate the wedding if kissing girls – to dream that you were kissing many pretty girls, symbolizes the marriage of someone you will celebrate. There is going to be a big party;
• Melancholy if does not like the kissing – to dream that you do not want to kiss the person you love, shows the anger towards that person or sadness you are suffering;
• Evil if kissing the married person – if you kissed someone that is married, then such dream shows the negativity and badness that lies in you. Make sure you get rid of the negative aspects that you have in your personality.

Arabian (Islamic)

• Will gain the profit if kissing your wife – to dream that you kissed your wife, denotes to the richness you will obtain;
• Will obtain the benefits from someone if been kissed by the dead person – to see yourself kissing the dead person, suggests that you will receive richness from unknown source;
• Will get married if kissed the unknown female – to dream that you kissed the woman you do not know, symbolizes the marriage you will have soon;
• Death if sick person kisses the dead person – to be kissed by the person who is dead for the man who is ill, announces the death of his own;
• Will go to Mecca if kissed the hand of God – the dreamer that has kissed the hand of the God soon will start his journey into Mecca;
• Marriage if the man kissed the other man’s eyes – the one who has such dream will get married with the blessing of his family;
• Will receive some money if kissed the beloved one on the cheek – to kiss the one you love on the cheek, brings the luck with the money.

Artemidorus Meanings:

According to Artemidorus kissing is the pleasant gesture which sometimes is followed by nice words and actions. The positive omens come only when the dreamer is kissing those he likes and loves, otherwise the dream can have a negative meaning. If the enemy has kissed you, prepare yourself for the lost of the battle. Alternatively, there is a possibility to become even and reach the peace with the ones the dreamer was fighting with.

* Please, see meaning of cannibalism, lips, mouth, sexuality, tongue.

Quick and Clear:

Most popular explanation, which consists of most common meanings and interpretations about adultery in dreams

• If you dream that you commit adultery or cheating on someone, this is a sign of you not being honest with yourself. Maybe there are some things in your life you can not admit to yourself and hiding the feelings deep down inside of you.
• Dreaming of an adultery also could be a sign of you being invoked into something against the law.
• If you see your partner or your friend cheating on you, this is a sign that you are afraid of being neglected by the ones you love. You should consider, as there might be something missing in the relationships you are having, that why you are having those fears. What you should do is not humble yourself down.
• If you dream of cheating on your partner with his friend, this is a sign that there are changes that has to be done in your relationship with your partner, as you feel unappreciated. You might reveal something about your partner you will not like.

In general:

An adultery in sleep can be a nightmare or a regular dream. Everyone dream at least once about being unfaithful.

When the dreamer appears in his dream as an adulterer or an adulteress, then such dream is a sign of his or her desire to change something in marriage or in relationship. But dreaming of adultery, being an cheater, can also reveal anger and fear in his soul.

The dream about others, who commit adultery, is probably the indication that the dreamer is not in the affair. But such dream might be a sign that there is some dirt in the dreamer’s life.

Psychologically:

Dreaming of voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a partner other than spouse might be induced by wishful conscious thinking. Such dream, in which the dreamer is committing or living in adultery or bigamy, is most likely to occur for people who are unsatisfied of marriage in an emotional and a sexual aspects.

The atmosphere of the dream is important. Even if the adultery was committed only in the mind of dreaming person, still it may cause the sense of guilt.

The dream about adultery is also a chance to experience of your own, true feelings in case of real adultery. Dreaming about a fornication or an adultery will let you know how would you feel in case of being unfaithful and what the consequences of adultery is.

Traditionally:

European (Judeo-Christian)

• Adultery in general – Adultery, infidelity or cheating of your partner in general: brings dishonor and shame;
  • Other interpretation in same condition: means the desire for a fling or a bad conscience for committing unfaithful act;
• Adultery with guiltiness – If an adultery in dream creates feelings of guilt because of cheating: means failure;
• Man is cheating – For men to dream that he is committing an adultery: he might go on trial in court for an illegal action;
• Woman is cheating – For women to dream that she commit an adultery: she will not be able to get the affection of the man, because she let’s her temper by the slightest provocation become an anger;
• Woman is cheating with friend – For women to dream that she has a relationship with the friend of her man: her husband is not wrong;
• Woman is cheating with young man – For woman to dream that a young person made her to commit adultery: she is in the risk of being abandoned;
• Dreaming that partner is cheating - To dream that partner is unfaithful: means a happy marriage.

Arabian (Islamic)

• To commit adultery in dream, to make it by yourself: indicates possibility of fire hazard; loss of belongings.

M. Ibn Sirin dreambook:

Islamic dream meanings and interpretations about an Adultery by Muslim interpreter of dreams Muhammad Ibn Sirin

Adultery meaning in Islam Source: Strong
(Meaning of dream: Condition in dream)

• Betrayal in general: Dreaming about committing the exceptionally bad and forbidden act of adultery means betrayal. If the dreamer sees himself doing so in a dream, it means that he will betray his partner*. An unknown woman is better in such dream than a known woman.
• Theft in other hand: Adultery in a dream also can represent theft.
• Unlawful money if adulteress is persuading : Dreaming about an adulteress which soliciting the dreamer for fornication means that he might be tempted to earn money in illegal way.
• Safe money if young woman in dream : If the dreamer commits adultery with a young and a beautiful woman, it means that he will place his earnings in safe place or a coffer.
• Bigger authority for strong man: If a powerful person performs adultery in his dream and if he had to face the divine ordinance and chastisement for his sin in the dream, it means that his authority will become bigger.
• Money from husband of adulteress: If the dreamer committing adultery with the wife of a friend in a dream it means that he will take some money from this friend.
• Adulterer himself or adulteress herself if dreaming of reading the Quranic verse: If the dreamer reads the ruling of the divine ordinance concerning the punishment of adulterers in a dream, it means that he is an adulterer.
• Adulterer himself or adulteress herself: If the dreamer marries an adulteress or an adulterer in a dream, it means that the dreamer is an adulterer or adulteress.
• Wisdom and knowledge for student to dream adulteress: If a student on the path of Allah Almighty, who is known to have piety, good conduct and who has the look of a believer sees himself dealing with an adulteress or a woman who has committed adultery in a dream, it means that he will join the company of a Gnostic and learn wisdom at his hand.
• Worldly interests if others committing adultery: If the dreamer sees a man and a woman sitting alone in an intimate setting in his dream, and if he recognizes them, it means that the dreamer desires some worldly interests from such a man.
• Safe savings: If the dreamer sees himself raping a young woman in a dream, it means that he hides his savings in an unknown place.
• Path of knowledge: If the dreamer is caught after an adultery, and if the divine ordinance is exacted in the dream, his dream means that he will follow the path of knowledge and understanding of religious jurisprudence.
• Severe trials: If the dreamer performs adultery with an adulteress in a dream, it means that he will encounter severe trials.
• Possibility of death: If the dreamer enters a brothel and can’t find the way back and it’s impossible to leave that place, then such dream shows small possibility that he may die shortly.
• Trust: If the dreamer is sleeping with someone else’s wife, while the husband of her is not showing in a dream, means that her husband will entrust the dreamer with his home to manage.

* Please, see meaning of marriage, divorce, sexual intercourse.

* Partner stands for boyfriend or girlfriend, husband or wife, fiancé or fiancée, spouse or just friends with benefits.