In General the sexuality of human beings develops at very early age. When the baby starts discovering his own body, he discovers senses and pleasures that never felt before. At this stage of his life, he learns which parts of the body has to be touched if he wishes to feel the pleasure. Sometimes, when parents notice babies touching themselves they are afraid of such actions, therefore the babies are punished in many various ways. Because the child has been traumatized in his childhood, he has more dreams that are related to sexuality than any other ordinary man. These feelings are suppressed, but in dreams they occur more and often.

Psychological Meanings:

One of the instincts human beings have is the sexuality. On the psychological level, the sexuality is dreamed of usually when it is suppressed in reality. There are many different reasons, why the sexuality is suppressed, as for example the childhood, where the dreamer interpreted the sexual act as a sin.
On the positive note, the sexuality is the primal need for intimacy and the way to find the union with another person. Those who have no sexual partners in their lives have more of sexual dreams, than those who have the sexual partners in their lives, because of the mental state of their mind is occupied with the thoughts rather than feelings. The energy that is hidden deep in their mind is expressed through the dreams, therefore something must be done, as it is not healthy to suppress your needs.
The negative aspects of your dream might indicate the ego of the dreamer. There is a possibility that the dreamer is overconfident by his ability to perform not only sexually, but in many various ways either. The overconfidence brings negativity in the life, when others starts to reject him. The dreamer must adapt himself in community being confident, but not too impudent. The other dream explanations can be interpreted depending on the tendency of the dream:

Bisexuality – every human being has both female and male sides of his personality and one of it is usually more seen, depending on the gender. Bisexuality in dreams can show the actual bisexuality of the dreamer. Alternatively, the dream might indicate the conflict the dreamer has between inner and outer world.

Ejaculation – the attitude of the dreamer to his sexuality is often seen in these dreams. Ejaculation in a dream may be an attempt to understand negative feelings. It could also be an indication that the dreamer has the need for relaxation and to satisfy his sexual desires. The ejaculation may represent the abandonment of old fears and self-doubts or symbolize sexual potency.

Fetishism – could be explained as the fear the dreamer has. There is also a possibility that fetish symbolizes the lack of mature of capability to perform. It is known that Fetish is inherent from some particular objects. As the example, is the child who can not sleep without his toy. The sexual energy that is expressed by adults using the certain objects is known as Fetishism, therefore the dream shows the hidden desires or fears the dreamer has.

Sexually transmitted disease – is dreamed by those who have fears to be misunderstood or of the fact that their secrets will be sorted out. The dream could also represent the actual fear of catching the disease which is transmitted by sexual act. The fear is coming from the distrust of your partner or because of huge variety of sexual partners you have.

Cuddling/Having sex – if the dreamer was having sexual intercourse or simply cuddling with someone, then such dream indicates the communication you have or wish to have on the intimate level. The dream might also indicate the hidden desires that are unexpressed on many levels.

Hermaphrodite – in dreams symbolizes the balance between two opposites, which means that the dreamer is able to even the things in his life. Alternatively, the dream could show your actual confusion of who you are on the sexual level.

Homosexuality – is dreamed by those who support the homosexuals or are one of them. The dream of homosexuality also symbolizes the stronger aspects of femininity or manliness depending of who you are. Alternatively, the dream simply shows your liking to particular person as a friend.

Incest – in dreams represents the guilt the dreamer has to his parents, brothers, sisters or other relatives. Maybe there is something you’ve done that you felt sorry for, therefore you feel guilty about that.

Sexy clothing – represents hidden sexuality or desires and wishes. Maybe the dreamer is very shy person, but has an imagination of performing in life better than he actually does. Alternatively, the dream could show the shame about his appearance.

Masochism – the dream which includes the acts of masochism symbolizes the need for the extreme lifestyle. Alternatively, the dream may indicate your manner to be good for everyone even if you have to suffer from it. Maybe at some point you are enjoying at sacrificing.

Masturbation – is the act to get the sexual pleasure by yourself. The dream in which you masturbate denotes to the comfort you are giving to yourself. Alternatively, it might show the shortness of sexual experience in your life.

Perversion – such dream points to the fact of the avoidance to take responsibility and/or do the things the opposite way.

Penis – is the symbol of masculinity, creativity, aggression, fertility. The penis also shows the sexual needs of the dreamer, especially if she is a woman. The dream may also show the doubts of your ability to perform sexually if the dreamer is the man. Alternatively, it could show his confidence, depending on the feelings in the reality.

Sadism – usually indicates the anger which is repressed. Mostly these feelings were caused in the childhood of the dreamer. Consider not to be so drastic to yourself and do not punish for what has happened in the past.

Sperm – the symbol of masculinity and fertility. In dreams it is not necessarily the symbol of sexuality as it might also signify the development of your resources or ideas.

Rape – if the dreamer has been raped in his dream, then it suggests to look deeper into your relationships with other people. Maybe you feel the pressure from someone and doing things you do not like. Make sure you find the solution while communicating with those people. Maybe you should end the particular relationships or simply sort out the problem that is depressing you.Dreams of rape are also very common for those who actually been raped in the reality.

Spiritual Meanings:

Sexual activity is either the highest expression of love between two people or it is simply the nature of human-beings.

Traditional Meanings:

European (Judeo-Christian)

• Satisfaction in personal relationships if dream of sexuality – such dream indicates the joy and happiness in your and your significant other communication;
• Longing for the deep feelings if watching others having a sexual experience – to dream that you are watching other people having sexual intercourse, shows the lack of love in your life. You wish to have someone to experience those things the others were doing in your dream.

* Please, see meaning of sexual intercourse, penis, kiss.

Welcoming, intimacy, privacy, affection, love, relationships.

Question:

With who I want to get closer?

General Meanings:

In General the kissing is presented as the action of tenderness, sign of love and affection. Those who have dreams about kisses usually are longing for sensitivity and closeness. There are different explanations of the kiss, depending on the circumstances of it:

Kissing a certain person
The dream in which you kiss a particular person shows your relationships and feelings to that person. Sometimes when we longing for some person or feel deeply and emotionally attached to him we dream of kissing that person. The dream could also show the sexual affection towards the person you’ve kissed

Kissing the hands
Since the ancient times the hands were the symbol of the tool which helps to provide the food and take care of those you love. Not only in dreams, but in reality also the kissing of the hands show the respect for the person that the hands been kissed you have. Sometimes the other people kiss your hands which shows the appreciation they have to you. Consider who was kissing your hands and you will be able to thank that person in reality.

Others kissing
To witness other people kissing shows the longing for love the dreamer suffers. Such dream is quite depressing, because of the inability to be the one that is kissed. Consider of what is missing in your life, try to fill that gap not necessarily with love, but with something you really like to do.

Kissing old people
To kiss people that are old in reality shows the respect, however in dreams it has a negative meaning. According to the explanation of such dream it shows the disappointments the dreamer will suffer. There is a possibility of the loss for those you’ve known for a long time, because when the dreamer kiss the old people it shows the farewell with something that no longer will exist. Do not worry, as sometimes the end of something is the beginning of something new, maybe even better.

Psychological Meanings:

On the psychological level the kiss is the part of communication with other people. For example in France it is very common to kiss people who are not necessary your lovers, but friends too. The kiss that is used on your partner and friends are completely different.
The kiss on the lips usually shows the affection to that particular person you’ve been kissing.Very often the kiss is interpreted as the part of spiritual communication. The agreement that was made can also be secured with a kiss.
The kiss that was made with the tongue is more related to sexual needs and desires. These kind of dreams shows the erotic aspects of your personality. The tongue-kiss or French kiss is usually the part of the beginning of sexual intercourse, when the partners start by kissing each other, then kissing and in the end of it making love. Alternatively, the dream in which the dreamer was tongue kissing the other one may indicate his desire to reach out the ideas or the attention of that certain person. Sometimes in reality we feel like we’re not listened or understood properly, therefore by kissing the other one we feel the attention and the connection we were aiming for.
Consider, what is missing in your life. Maybe you are looking for romance or just simply longing to share your life with somebody else.

Spiritual Meanings:

On the spiritual level the kiss is the symbol of love, friendship, relationship, duality, tenderness and respect. The kiss also have the religious meaning depending on the religion, which usually symbolizes spiritual blessing.

Traditional Meanings:

European (Judeo-Christian)

• Falseness if kissed without permission – to dream that you were kissed by someone, but without asking for it, shows the untrue and false friends you have;
• Decadence if had prohibited kiss – if the dreamer kissed someone or been kissed by someone that is forbidden to kiss, then such dream signifies inappropriate actions you will do or denotes to personal downfall;
• Respect if received the kiss – to dream that you received the kiss by someone and it felt pleasurable, shows the devotion and respect that person has to you;
• Respect if kissing the hand – if someone kissed your hand or you kissed someone;s hand, such dream shows admiration and respects towards the person whose hand been kissed;
• Humiliation if kissing the foot – if you kissed someone’s foot or somebody kissed yours, such dream refers to indignity towards the one that was kissing the foot;
• Friendship if kissing the cheek – the kiss on the cheek symbolizes the honest relationships between those who were having a kiss;
• Jealousy if kiss friend’s boyfriend/girlfriend – the dream of kissing someone that does not belong to you, but is in relationship to another person and is forbidden to kiss, shows the longing for love or envy towards relationships between other people;
• Memories if kissing your ex boyfriend/girlfriend – in the dream which you were kissing your ex girlfriend or boyfriend shows the memories you are having. Those memories could be either good, either bad ones, depending on your past relationships. The dream suggest you to look into your past and learn from it, instead of receiving negative aspects of it;
• Respect if kissed the friend – to dream of kissing the friend, denotes to adoration and love you have towards that particular person you were kissing in your dream. The dream could also show your hidden romantic feelings to this friend;
• Acceptance of suppressed aspects of your personality if kissed the stranger – such dream denotes to the final realization of who you are. Consider, that if you were kissed by the stranger, then such dream shows the new aspects in your personality you found you have;
• The desire to be the best if kissing the popular person/celebrity – if you were kissing the person that is known by mostly people and he/she is actor, singer, comedian or any other celebrity, then it means that you are willing to be successful in your life. You’ve got the drive to go forward in life and take as much as it possible out of it;
• Danger if kissing in the dark – the dream in which you were kissing someone in the darkness, suggest to be careful, because the dangerous situations will be lurking for you;
• Sadness if others are kissing – to see other people kissing brings the longing and sadness in your life. The dream shows you’re in depressed mood while looking at other being happy;
• Longing for tenderness if kiss the mother – the kiss that was received or given by the mother, shows the tenderness you are missing;
• Joy if kissing brother or sister – in the dream in which you kiss your relatives such as brothers or sisters, shows happiness in your life;
• Fear of losing the respect if boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife kissing the other person – the dream in which your partner kiss another person, shows your fear or losing that person or the respect he/ she has for you;
• Disappointments if kiss the old person – to dream that you were kissing the old person or received the kiss from him, shows the frustration you will suffer. Alternatively, the dream might show the respect towards the old person;
• Happiness if kissing the face – the dream in which the whole face was kissed, brings happiness in all aspects of your life;
• Melancholy if do not like the kiss – to dream that you do not want to kiss the person you love, shows the anger towards that person or sadness you are suffering;
• Many descendants if kissing the dead person – the dream in which you’ve kissed the person that is already dead, denotes to children you might have;
• Evil if kissing the married person – if you kissed someone that is married, then such dream shows the negativity and badness that lies in you. Make sure you get rid of the negative aspects that you have in your personality;
• Happy marriage if kissing the bride – to dream that you’ve kissed the bride, symbolizes your own happy marriage no matter if you are already married or will be in the future;
• Humiliation if kiss the ground/earth – the dream in which you kissed the ground suggest you to look after by whom you are surrounded by, because there is a possibility you will get humiliated by those people;
• Piety if kissing the cross – to dream that you were kissing the cross, shows your devotion and love towards God. You are the person who believes that goodness brings the happiness in life;
• Happiness in family life if kissing the children – to dream that you were kissing kids, shows the happy and joyful family life;
• Unhappiness if young woman kiss the forehead of her lover – the person that has been kissed by the young women on his forehead is unhappy with this woman. There is no passion between these two.

Hindu (Hinduism)

• Falseness if kissing your own hands – to dream that you were kissing the hands of your own, shows the untrue friends you are surrounded by;
• Surveillance if kissing the neck – to kiss the neck in the dream, shows the care you have to somebody or receiving it out from someone;
• Love if kissing someone passionately – if you’ve kissed someone with love and passion, then such dream shows that you have very strong feelings to that certain person. Maybe you feel irresistible desire to make love to that person or simply love him deeply;
• Great perspectives if kissing someone’s hands – to dream that you were kissing the hands of someone, means the opportunities you will have, which will bring great profits;
• Goodness if kissing the dead person you know – to dream of kissing the person that is dead and you know him as the one who already passed away, symbolizes the good you will receive from this person’s soul;
• Humiliation if kiss the ground/earth – the dream in which you kissed the ground suggest you to look after by whom you are surrounded by, because there is a possibility you will get humiliated by those people;
• Piety if kissing the cross – to dream that you were kissing the cross, shows your devotion and love towards God. You are the person who believes that goodness brings the happiness in life;
• Happiness in family life if kissing the children – to dream that you were kissing kids, shows the happy and joyful family life;
• Will celebrate the wedding if kissing girls – to dream that you were kissing many pretty girls, symbolizes the marriage of someone you will celebrate. There is going to be a big party;
• Melancholy if does not like the kissing – to dream that you do not want to kiss the person you love, shows the anger towards that person or sadness you are suffering;
• Evil if kissing the married person – if you kissed someone that is married, then such dream shows the negativity and badness that lies in you. Make sure you get rid of the negative aspects that you have in your personality.

Arabian (Islamic)

• Will gain the profit if kissing your wife – to dream that you kissed your wife, denotes to the richness you will obtain;
• Will obtain the benefits from someone if been kissed by the dead person – to see yourself kissing the dead person, suggests that you will receive richness from unknown source;
• Will get married if kissed the unknown female – to dream that you kissed the woman you do not know, symbolizes the marriage you will have soon;
• Death if sick person kisses the dead person – to be kissed by the person who is dead for the man who is ill, announces the death of his own;
• Will go to Mecca if kissed the hand of God – the dreamer that has kissed the hand of the God soon will start his journey into Mecca;
• Marriage if the man kissed the other man’s eyes – the one who has such dream will get married with the blessing of his family;
• Will receive some money if kissed the beloved one on the cheek – to kiss the one you love on the cheek, brings the luck with the money.

Artemidorus Meanings:

According to Artemidorus kissing is the pleasant gesture which sometimes is followed by nice words and actions. The positive omens come only when the dreamer is kissing those he likes and loves, otherwise the dream can have a negative meaning. If the enemy has kissed you, prepare yourself for the lost of the battle. Alternatively, there is a possibility to become even and reach the peace with the ones the dreamer was fighting with.

* Please, see meaning of cannibalism, lips, mouth, sexuality, tongue.