In General the sexuality of human beings develops at very early age. When the baby starts discovering his own body, he discovers senses and pleasures that never felt before. At this stage of his life, he learns which parts of the body has to be touched if he wishes to feel the pleasure. Sometimes, when parents notice babies touching themselves they are afraid of such actions, therefore the babies are punished in many various ways. Because the child has been traumatized in his childhood, he has more dreams that are related to sexuality than any other ordinary man. These feelings are suppressed, but in dreams they occur more and often.

Psychological Meanings:

One of the instincts human beings have is the sexuality. On the psychological level, the sexuality is dreamed of usually when it is suppressed in reality. There are many different reasons, why the sexuality is suppressed, as for example the childhood, where the dreamer interpreted the sexual act as a sin.
On the positive note, the sexuality is the primal need for intimacy and the way to find the union with another person. Those who have no sexual partners in their lives have more of sexual dreams, than those who have the sexual partners in their lives, because of the mental state of their mind is occupied with the thoughts rather than feelings. The energy that is hidden deep in their mind is expressed through the dreams, therefore something must be done, as it is not healthy to suppress your needs.
The negative aspects of your dream might indicate the ego of the dreamer. There is a possibility that the dreamer is overconfident by his ability to perform not only sexually, but in many various ways either. The overconfidence brings negativity in the life, when others starts to reject him. The dreamer must adapt himself in community being confident, but not too impudent. The other dream explanations can be interpreted depending on the tendency of the dream:

Bisexuality – every human being has both female and male sides of his personality and one of it is usually more seen, depending on the gender. Bisexuality in dreams can show the actual bisexuality of the dreamer. Alternatively, the dream might indicate the conflict the dreamer has between inner and outer world.

Ejaculation – the attitude of the dreamer to his sexuality is often seen in these dreams. Ejaculation in a dream may be an attempt to understand negative feelings. It could also be an indication that the dreamer has the need for relaxation and to satisfy his sexual desires. The ejaculation may represent the abandonment of old fears and self-doubts or symbolize sexual potency.

Fetishism – could be explained as the fear the dreamer has. There is also a possibility that fetish symbolizes the lack of mature of capability to perform. It is known that Fetish is inherent from some particular objects. As the example, is the child who can not sleep without his toy. The sexual energy that is expressed by adults using the certain objects is known as Fetishism, therefore the dream shows the hidden desires or fears the dreamer has.

Sexually transmitted disease – is dreamed by those who have fears to be misunderstood or of the fact that their secrets will be sorted out. The dream could also represent the actual fear of catching the disease which is transmitted by sexual act. The fear is coming from the distrust of your partner or because of huge variety of sexual partners you have.

Cuddling/Having sex – if the dreamer was having sexual intercourse or simply cuddling with someone, then such dream indicates the communication you have or wish to have on the intimate level. The dream might also indicate the hidden desires that are unexpressed on many levels.

Hermaphrodite – in dreams symbolizes the balance between two opposites, which means that the dreamer is able to even the things in his life. Alternatively, the dream could show your actual confusion of who you are on the sexual level.

Homosexuality – is dreamed by those who support the homosexuals or are one of them. The dream of homosexuality also symbolizes the stronger aspects of femininity or manliness depending of who you are. Alternatively, the dream simply shows your liking to particular person as a friend.

Incest – in dreams represents the guilt the dreamer has to his parents, brothers, sisters or other relatives. Maybe there is something you’ve done that you felt sorry for, therefore you feel guilty about that.

Sexy clothing – represents hidden sexuality or desires and wishes. Maybe the dreamer is very shy person, but has an imagination of performing in life better than he actually does. Alternatively, the dream could show the shame about his appearance.

Masochism – the dream which includes the acts of masochism symbolizes the need for the extreme lifestyle. Alternatively, the dream may indicate your manner to be good for everyone even if you have to suffer from it. Maybe at some point you are enjoying at sacrificing.

Masturbation – is the act to get the sexual pleasure by yourself. The dream in which you masturbate denotes to the comfort you are giving to yourself. Alternatively, it might show the shortness of sexual experience in your life.

Perversion – such dream points to the fact of the avoidance to take responsibility and/or do the things the opposite way.

Penis – is the symbol of masculinity, creativity, aggression, fertility. The penis also shows the sexual needs of the dreamer, especially if she is a woman. The dream may also show the doubts of your ability to perform sexually if the dreamer is the man. Alternatively, it could show his confidence, depending on the feelings in the reality.

Sadism – usually indicates the anger which is repressed. Mostly these feelings were caused in the childhood of the dreamer. Consider not to be so drastic to yourself and do not punish for what has happened in the past.

Sperm – the symbol of masculinity and fertility. In dreams it is not necessarily the symbol of sexuality as it might also signify the development of your resources or ideas.

Rape – if the dreamer has been raped in his dream, then it suggests to look deeper into your relationships with other people. Maybe you feel the pressure from someone and doing things you do not like. Make sure you find the solution while communicating with those people. Maybe you should end the particular relationships or simply sort out the problem that is depressing you.Dreams of rape are also very common for those who actually been raped in the reality.

Spiritual Meanings:

Sexual activity is either the highest expression of love between two people or it is simply the nature of human-beings.

Traditional Meanings:

European (Judeo-Christian)

• Satisfaction in personal relationships if dream of sexuality – such dream indicates the joy and happiness in your and your significant other communication;
• Longing for the deep feelings if watching others having a sexual experience – to dream that you are watching other people having sexual intercourse, shows the lack of love in your life. You wish to have someone to experience those things the others were doing in your dream.

* Please, see meaning of sexual intercourse, penis, kiss.

Violent behaviour when finding solution; release of energy; conflict side of personality; confrontation.

Question:

How do I deal with conflicts? What kind of conflicts do I have? Which parts of my personality is at conflict?

General Meanings:

In general the dream about fight can indicate doubts the dreamer has. It means that individual is confused, fighting with himself and trying to find the solution to the problems he has.
When the dreamer finds himself in a fight with somebody, then such dream signifies his need for independence. Maybe he is frustrated and feels helpless in particular situation. The anger that is suppressed in reality, is expressed during your sleep.
Other meanings of the dream can be explained from the following circumstances :

• Spite towards someone if watch the fight in the arena – such dream shows the anger and aversion you have to somebody;
• Desire for justify if call someone to have a fight – the dream shows how much you believe in truth and wish the world to become better place.

Psychological Meanings:

Psychologically the dreamer feels threatened in his everyday life if had dream that is related to fighting. The one who gets into fight is looking for the answers to his questions. The conflict shows that the dreamer has no courage to stand up for himself, therefore he gets into fight while dreaming. Sometimes the fight might show that the dreamer is a watcher of some particular situation and even if he can help for someone he doesn’t do it, because cares only for his own business.

Spiritual Meanings:

Spiritually the fight as a symbol is the reference to a spiritual conflict you have. Consider to find out what kind of conflict you have within yourself. Try to sort it out calmly without angry emotions and only then you will be able to find the solution to your problems.

Traditional Meanings:

European (Judeo-Christian)

The fight usually indicates inner confusion of the dreamer. Some aspects of your personality are in conflict with other aspects of your personality. It might also show the actual mess in your real life.

• Will take risks if you are involved into fight – if you saw yourself fighting with someone, then such dream shows that you will take some risks while dealing with business affairs or making any other kind of deal;
• Profit to someone if two men fighting with pistols/guns – if the dreamer saw himself fighting another man with the gun or pistol, then such dream promises gain for one of these men;
• You will be saved from catastrophe if fighting on a battlefield – the fight in a battle shows your ability to go along with others and fight till the end, therefore you will find the solution to your concerns with the help from the others;
• Prepare yourself for hard work if see the battleground – such dream gives you an understanding about hard work you will have to do;
• Should finish the relationship with a man if the woman sees fighting her lover – for a woman to see herself fighting with her lover shows that this man is not worth her, she should look for another partner;
• Malicious delight if watching the game of fight – such dream shows that you will enjoy the life without being involved in any fight.

Hindu (Hinduism)

• Food worries and/or sadness because of capricious kids if dreaming of fight.

Arabian (Islamic)

• Caution will be very beneficial for you if watch others fighting – such dream indicates your luck, because you are not the one who is involved into fight;
• Will avoid threatening danger if saw the fight between animals – such dream also shows the fortune to watch the fight, without being involved in it;
• Will get into trouble if you are involved in a fight – such dream warns of upcoming danger for which you have to prepare yourself.

* Please, see meaning of defend, battle, war.

Emotional coldness; fear of stagnation.

Question:

Where I can find the warmth?

General Meanings:

In dreams very often the emotions are converted into bodily sensations. Sometimes the dreamer is affected by by external stimulation, in this dream he is affected by cold, therefore in dream he feels cold.
Mostly the dreams that are related to cold express the freeze that lies in you. It could be anything that stops you from moving forward. You might feel frozen, suppressed and unable to perform in your life, therefore can not make any decisions or plans for the future.
The exact meaning of the dream originates from the circumstances you are surrounded by.

Psychological Meanings:

If the dreamer feels cold in his dream, then such dream indicates that you are experiencing hard period at this time of your life. Maybe you are feeling lonely and/or exhausted. The dream might also indicate cold feelings towards some person, maybe there is an emotional distance between you too, which leads to the feeling of coldness and emptiness. Sometimes people actually feel cold during their sleep, therefore a dream is a reflection of external stimulation.

Spiritual Meanings:

Spiritually the cold denotes to the feelings of being lost, lonely and unhappy.

Traditional Meanings:

European (Judeo-Christian)

According to European dream explanation, the cold is mostly related for awareness at all aspects of your life.

• Loneliness if feel cold – the dream of being cold relates to the feeling of being lonely. Maybe you lost connection with your relatives, friends or family. Try restore it as soon as it is possible, otherwise you will feel miserable not only in your dream, but reality too;
• Will get disappointed by the surroundings if you are in cold area – being in the area that feels cold and unnatural shows the frustration you will suffer;
• Stay calm when making certain decisions if see the word cold – for a dreamer to see the word cold written somewhere indicates the need to be careful and emotionless when making some important solutions;
• Stay away from envious people if you touch something cold – such dream warns you to keep a distance from those who are trying to harm you.

Arabian (Islamic)

• Look after your health if feeling cold – the dream warns you to pay more attention to your health;
• Poverty if dream of cold temperature – such dream indicates poor and miserable life;
• The plans will change if dream of cold winter – such dream shows that any plans you made should be cancelled, because you will not accomplish them.

* Please, see meaning of freeze.

European (Judeo-Christian)

• Good omen if behave insolence – In the dream you behave insolence opposite somebody, then this dream is an advantageous and favorable sign for your future;
• Worries if be rude – You are dreaming that you are really rude, then this dream denotes that there are difficulties in front of you.

Hindu (Hinduism)

• Bad period if behave insolence - The dream when you behave insolence this announces that unpleasant events are coming to you.

Arabian (Islamic)

• Loss of friends if behave insolence - The insolence behavior in the dream may be a warning that if you act like this in the real life you may loose your friends.

European (Judeo-Christian)

• Warning if be invulnerable – You are dreaming that you are invulnerable, this is a warning, you have to avoid dangers for your health in every conceivable way.

Hindu (Hinduism)

• Be careful if be invulnerable – The dream where you are invulnerable marks that in your real life you do not have to act like invulnerable because improper behavior may cause damage.

Arabian (Islamic)

• Protection if be invulnerable - The feel of vulnerable in the dream do not give you a sign to act like this in your real life, because danger is everywhere and you have to protect people you love.

European (Judeo-Christian)

• Warning if feel malaise – You are dreaming that you feel malaise, so it is a warning of insidiousness. Also this dream is very unfavorably for lovers.

Hindu (Hinduism)

• Watch your health if feel malaise – The malaise is the dream warns you, that you have to be very attentive because you are near exhaustion.

Arabian (Islamic)

• Need to rest if feel malaise – The feeling of malaise in the dream, marks that the dreamer has to find time to relax because you will damage your health.

* Please, see meaning of discomfort, dizziness.

If the dreamer has his vacation in his dream, this refers that the dreamer needs to have a rest and to satisfy own needs, without having to worry about others. Vacation often requests to the rest because this leads to exhaustion of nervous system. Sometimes this dream may show that the dreamer will miss favorable opportunities and positive chances through inaction and “vacation”.

Psychological Meanings:

The vacation in the dream represents always a symbol for relaxation, leisure and freedom. Often, the desire connected with ability to enjoy life with his partner or his family. Especially in situations of high work stress this images occur more frequently. They should be also taken as a warning, because if you do not ” slower “, mistakes and in extreme cases this result accidents or psychosomatic disorders. The vacation is the time of the rest and relaxation, and you or just the biggest workaholic needs rest. Farther symbols from this semantic field also always appear when you are dissatisfied with your work or your individual position. So, the dream symbol vacation can be viewed as the escape symbol. Perhaps, however, as an important indication that there is a repressed desire for you to live differently. The vacation is also a mirror or a projection screen for individual longings to be someone or somewhere else – a kaleidoscope of illusory longings, but also a magnifying glass of essential needs and realistic alternatives. For some, for example, the compulsive of bending people, the vacation also represents a time where tensions are experienced. This experience of tension can be viewed as a cleaning process, which is absolutely necessary to keep healthy and fit. More holiday memories are processed in the dream. This includes the fact that dreams take place in countries where you have been on vacation, or take situations that you have experienced on holiday. Even if you see in a dream vacation acquaintances, you can interpret it under the aspect of the holiday if also the properties of this vacation acquaintances are of yourself  (subject function of the dream symbol). A holiday season – this are for most people nearly “holy” days. The dream symbol warns the dreamer about overwhelm its system. A few free days help to create space for new development.

Spiritual Meanings:

At this level vacation equals to spiritual “filling up” and means relaxation and rest.

Traditional Meanings:

European (Judeo-Christian)

• - The wishful dream which appears from nervous over stimulation because the organism is overloaded;
• - You are dreaming that you get a vacation: in spite of big strains you will not find a rest; you will not be able to participate in a pleasure which you look forward;
• - In the dream you are in the vacation: interesting strangers will soon take up your hospitality claims;
• - If a young woman thinks that she does not like a vacation, she does not keep herself for attractively enough to win back a friend.

Hindu (Hinduism)

• - The dream about vacations: you get into a nasty gossip;
• - In the dream you do not get vacation: you will soon annoy about something.

As the old dream books indicates that the contempt/despite announces financial gain in near future.

Traditional Meanings:

European (Judeo-Christian)

• Respect if be despised – You became despised person this dream announces that you will come upwards because of your hard work;
• Reward if contempt someone – You state contempt for somebody in your dream, this dream denotes that you will attain wealth and you will be rewarded because of your efforts.

Hindu (Hinduism)

• Wealth if be despised person – You became despised person in the dream, this is a very good sign that you will come to wealth.

Arabian (Islamic)

• Success if be despised person – In the dream you are despised person, nobody will intimidate you, you are on the right way, you are doing the right things and you are going to reach all your goals.

* Please, see meaning of dislike, rejection.

European (Judeo-Christian)

• Success if be frighten – This dream is very contrary – the more terribly agony the more largely success in your real life. The business affairs will prosper and grow if you hold out, no matter how hard current difficulties may look.

* Please, see meaning of fear.

European (Judeo-Christian)

• Good life if feel contrary of annoyance – The dream of the contrary feeling of annoyance, this foretells prosperity at your work, business, family relationships;
• Success if be annoyed – You are annoyed in the dream, you will see that many concerns will disappear with morning wake up and after this you will be awarded by success to your own plans;
• Ability to correct mistakes if someone is angry – In the dream someone is angry of you, this denotes that you will be able to clear up small misunderstandings.